It’s been a while…

Hello beautiful friends,

It’s been a while.  I went to Thailand (beautiful, hot, lazy days) and then flew to California, to continue my goal of circumnavigating the Earth on this trip.  Someday I’ll do it without airplanes!  I’m visiting with friends now, as I slowly work my way back across the States.

But that’s not the purpose of this post.  I’ll write about my travels again some other time.  At the moment I want to tell you about a new project I’ve taken on.

When I left Greece I felt a confusing mixture of guilt, relief, more guilt, sorrow, anger, and a huge desire to go back immediately.  But my visa was up, so I had to leave.  I drifted a bit, trying to figure out what to do next.  I decided almost at once that even if I couldn’t be in Greece I could still do outreach at home, raise awareness and maybe money, and send it back to my friends still working in Europe.  Maybe I could inspire others to work at home or abroad to make life easier for these people.

To that end, I volunteered to help with the newborn DC Rally 4 Refugees, a group of volunteers back from Greece who decided to keep working.  On August 28 we will rally at the Washington Monument in DC to spread awareness, educate, and raise money.  Although this rally is aimed specifically at refugees from Syria, Iraq, and Afghanistan, we also stand in solidarity with refugees from the rest of the world, and will provide educational material on as many as we can.  There are 60 million refugees worldwide.  That’s a lot.

I’m the Volunteer Coordinator for this rally, which means that if you want to get involved, I’m the person to contact!  If you don’t want to get involved but do want to attend, like our Facebook page, share it with your friends, visit our website (which is getting an upgrade), shout it to the rooftops, donate, or just pass the word along.  The more people we have, the better!

I can’t tell you how much this means to me.  The situation in Greece is getting steadily worse as the EU does its level best to make things difficult for the refugees.  People are living in squalid conditions, being held in detention centers without cause for weeks, and literally starving in the streets.  When they “act out” by protesting, the authorities come and they get tear gassed and beaten, which turns protests into riots.  There’s very little protection for vulnerable cases and minors, no oversight at military-run camps, and the processes for relocation and asylum are cripplingly slow at best, nonfunctional at worst.

The USA should be doing more.  We have the space, the money, the resources.  We bear responsibility, as human beings, to help.  I hope this rally will begin to do that, by bringing awareness to the issue.

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Holding Pattern

Hello world.  I am back with you.  I haven’t written in a while because… quite frankly I haven’t known what to say.  I’ve had to leave Greece due to my Schengen visa expiring, and I’m not happy about it.  I’m trying to sort through all the feelings and thoughts I’ve been having, but it’s a long process.  I suspect I may make a very difficult post soon about all the things you think about when you work with refugees, but today is not that day.

Here are the bare bones of my last few weeks.

The EU and Turkey passed a deal that they would deport refugees back to Turkey, which was designated a safe third country.  A few days later the US State Department issued a travel warning for Turkey and recalled military families from several provinces, highlighting how this designation is complete and utter bullshit.  Nevertheless, the deal went down and Moria became a detention center.  This is a fancy term for prison.

Better Days for Moria went into collective shock.  All our refugees were gone, and we had to figure out what to do.  We decided on a rest-and-wait strategy, and suspended services for a week and a half while we cleaned, rested, and stuck around to see what would happen.  We also had a wedding, which was a much-needed bright spot in an otherwise bleak week.

I tried and failed to extend my Schengen visa, in a process that included a police officer who was uninterested in doing his job, three attempts to go to Athens, thwarted each time by things beyond my control, and an ATM eating my card.  At this point I decided the universe didn’t want me to stay, so I stuck around for a few more days attending meetings, went to the wedding, and packed up to go to Thessaloniki.  From there a friend picked me up and took me to Idomeni.

Two months ago Anna left for Idomeni, and she’s been working there ever since, coordinating the medical team.  As the weeks progressed, lots of Moria volunteers traveled up to the camp there as well, until there were several great projects being run almost entirely by teams from BDFM.  One of my Night Shifts was there, splitting their time between making hummus wraps and making hot meals.  I stayed for three nights with Camilla, Rémy, and Adam, three fantastic human beings who have been volunteering for months.  It was wonderful to see everyone again, and underlined the community that grows around this kind of work.

On the day I arrived Anna told me she was going to Bulgaria.  “Can I come?” I asked.  She said okay, and just like that we had plans to take a bus to Bulgaria.  Having made that decision I felt the entire framework of my well-functioning emotional state tremble.  I didn’t want to leave, but at the same time I could feel the bone-deep exhaustion that three months of work and stress will give you.  I made hummus wraps for two days and took it easy, doing food distribution in the hot sun and playing with kids while managing the line.

In the end it was easy to leave.  I just walked out the door with all my things, got on a bus

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Bus station in Thessaloniki

with Anna and Sim, got on another bus with just Anna after saying goodbye to Sim, and headed to Bulgaria.  I had no knowledge of the country, not a single word of Bulgarian, and no expectations.  I did have a sense of fitting circularity – I arrived on Lesvos with Anna three months ago by ferry, now we were leaving together by bus.

We arrived in Sofia in the midst of a massive thunderstorm.  The lightning was almost directly overhead, forking down at irregular intervals all the way to the ground.  The rain fell in a steady, plodding way, with big drops that soaked us through quickly, even though we had booked a hostel close to the bus station just to avoid this sort of thing.  We did make it to the hostel though, and managed to negotiate our way through paying even though neither of our hosts spoke a word of English.

It’s been two days now and we’re settling in.  We’ve switched hostels to a nicer and more central one, and we’re learning the city a bit.  I’ve tried one of the local specialties – a cold soup that’s basically thin tzatziki.  It’s delicious, I could eat it all day.  We’ve found the book market and two open-air fruit and vegetable markets.  I’ve visited a cathedral and we saw a mime on a bike.  I met a street musician auditioning for Bulgaria’s Got Talent (I hope he gets in, he’s a fantastic musician and he’s already made it to the semifinals) and Anna got a haircut from some ladies who never smiled and didn’t speak any English.  It looks very nice.  We’ve also bought henna, so we will both shortly become redheads again.

I’v also booked a flight to Thailand to get there in time to join my friend Elise for Songkran.  I’ll leave on the 12th.  Now I have to remember how to be a tourist, which is a more difficult task than it at first appears.  Wish me luck world, and I promise I will get better with posting again.  Ciao!

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Oops

Dear people of WordPress,

It has been many moons since my last post.  I apologize.  I have gotten several very gentle, kind reminders that there are people out there who want to KNOW WHAT I’M DOING DAMMIT, POST ON YOUR BLOG ALREADY!  No, I jest, they were all very kind and gentle, and so here I am, satisfying my lovely readers.

It’s not going to be very satisfying.  Buckle up.

The reason I haven’t posted in an age and a half is because the EU and Turkey have conspired together recently to broker a deal wherein all new arrivals in Greece will be processed and sent immediately back to Turkey.  Needless to say, this violates international humanitarian law, which states that each asylum case must be assessed individually.  I think they’re getting around it by calling it an emergency situation?  Well of course it’s a bloody emergency, there are thousands of people fleeing horror after horror and all they meet with is rejection!

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From Salt, by Nayyirah Waheed

I have some feelings about this, as you can probably tell.

What this means for Moria camp is basically that the inner compound has become a detention center.  People go in and they don’t come out except in big buses, which take them to ferries, which take them to the mainland, where they get either shuttled off to other holding centers around Greece, or deported back to Turkey, which has been designated a safe third country.  Better Days for Moria, where I work, has suspended services for ten days while we send a small team off around mainland Greece to check out the situation, because reliable information is scarce.  They’ll assess various holding centers and camps around Greece and report back, at which point Better Days will decide whether to stay where we are (unlikely at this point I think) or pick up and move somewhere else.

We’re not sure what the future looks like right now, but the refugees will keep coming as long as there is something to run away from.  I keep telling people: they’re not running to Europe, they’re running away from their homelands, and that is a significant distinction.

Right now BDFM is a ghost camp.  I built a garden four days ago with Sofia and a few other random volunteers, and now it will probably never be used.  I’m considering digging up the plants, repotting them, and moving them somewhere else.  They can be refugee plants; somewhat traumatized, unwanted, both useful and beautiful, uprooted at the whim of those in charge, and replanted wherever there is space.  That turned into a way better metaphor than I was expecting.

In the meantime, there’s a spot of good news!  Kiki and Ramon are getting married on Monday!  Kiki is one of the founders of Better Days, and Ramon is our fabulous infrastructure man.  They’re both a little wacky, a little wild, and incredibly hard-working.  The wedding promises to be a bash of epic proportions.  Suggestions so far include fireworks, tattoos, and and a priest in a literal penguin outfit.  We may never recover.  I’m looking forward to it.

Wake Up Europe!

Yesterday Better Days for Moria held a peaceful protest in support of open borders and safe passage, and as a wake up call for Europe.  This crisis isn’t going away.  These people have nowhere else to go.  We wanted to make a concerted, visible statement of our convictions.

When I arrived with face paint I was surrounded by young men all asking me to paint their faces like clowns, or with the flag of Pakistan.  I wrote Pakistan on more foreheads than I remember, then No Borders, Solidarity, AFG for Afghanistan, and a few clown faces.  Volunteers got hearts and peace signs on their cheeks, and soon everyone was wearing their politics on their skin for the world to see.  Ahmed, a Syrian translator with a bald head drew a peace sign right on the top.

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Chants of “Open the Borders!” and “Wake up Europe!” rang through the air from more than two hundred throats.  The camp was packed with people – cars lined the road outside and it was hard to move when I got down to the center.  I darted about with my camera, trying to find a good angle.  Sign after sign, face after smiling face passed by and it really hit me how many people are stuck here due to Europe’s unwillingness to let them in.  The five hundred or so that we host in the Olive Grove is nothing to the fifteen thousand in Idomeni, but it’s still a lot of people.  Most of them are single men, often teenagers, traveling alone or with friends.

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The feeling in the air was festive, but there was a line of seriousness underneath it all.  Most of these people have no homes to return to, or face torture, death, and war if they return.  Despite this, borders remain closed and thousands of people are forced to wait, hoping against hope that something will change.  I saw more smiles and laughter than tears, but there were some unhappy faces.  Everyone knows the situation is bad.  

We sat in a sprawling circle, signs held high, listening to a heartfelt speech written by one of our refugee volunteers and translated into five languages.  Three volunteers wearing suit jackets representing Europe stood silently by, hands covering eyes, mouth, and ears.  See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil.  It was a powerful image.

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One man stood up in the center of the circle of sitting Pakistanis and began leading a call and response in Urdu and English.  “One love!  Europe!  One love!  Europe!  All love!  Europe!  All love!  Europe!  My heart!  Europe!  My heart!  Europe!”  He was crying only a minute in, still shouting his hope and determination in a cracked voice.  Everyone clapped and cheered for him, and I felt myself tearing up as I thought about how, in all likelihood, he and everyone sitting around him would be deported back to Pakistan or Turkey in the coming weeks.

P1030761Although most of the protesters were men there were a few women.  One looked like she was praying.  Another shouted and cheered, then grabbed a sign and sang along with a group of young men from Iran.  A husband and wife stood together and clapped and cheered along with the crowd, the woman just as loud as the man.  A little girl of perhaps eleven years started a chant for Afghanistan, holding a sign that read “Wake up Europe!”  I took particular note of them as it was International Women’s Day.  The strength of the women I have met on this journey is humbling and inspiring, every single day.  

We sang “Imagine” by John Lennon all together, and at the line, “Imagine there’s no countries/it isn’t hard to do/Nothing to kill or die for…” I teared up again.  It’s not hard to imagine a world without war, a world where people can move freely toward a better, safer life, but at the moment it seems like a fever dream.  It’s so far from the reality it seems almost ludicrous, and yet we must cling to that dream and use our voices and actions to make it a reality.  We must do this as humans and in solidarity with our siblings around the world.  

At the end the volunteers made a human chain surrounding the refugees.  We started with our backs to them symbolizing Europe turning its collective back, then turned around to show our own support and love.  The message was clear – wake up Europe!  Open your borders, help those in need, let them bring new life to your cities and fields.  Learn new cultures and new traditions, revitalize yourself!  The time of isolated countries is over and done, the time of globalization is at hand.  Embrace them, these hopeful people who come to you with open hearts.  They will help you back to humanity.

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Skills I Never Thought I Would Acquire

Sizing shoes: I have become an expert at looking at someone’s foot and guessing its size correctly.  I can also convert between European and UK shoe sizes in my head.

Did you know that you can size a man’s trousers by the circumference of his neck?  I now know this fact.

I speak a few words of Punjabi now.  Who knew.

Clothing mime.  I’m so good at it guys.

Saying no: I wish I did not have to be good at this, but I have become an expert at telling sad people that they can’t have new shoes/bags/jeans.  I’m also good at shutting the door in their faces and telling them to come back later.  I hate this part of my job, but it took only one instance of having nothing for a family of wet, crying kids before I learned that it is worse to tell someone who really needs a thing that they can’t have it than to refuse someone who desires a thing but doesn’t need it.

Sleeping literally anywhere: I’ve been reasonably good at this for a while, but I’ve recently perfected the art of catnaps in boxes of clothes.

Cutting up emergency blankets.  Weirdly specific, and something I do almost every day.  I have a system.

Lack of surprise at whatever the latest illegal and inhumane measure various governments or the EU have taken to keep people out.  Again, a skill I wish I didn’t need.  Almost every day we get news of more horrors.  10,000 people stuck at the Macedonian border.  Pakistanis arrested and deported for no reason other than their country of birth.  NATO and Turkish police pushing boats back or deliberately sinking them, respectively.  Lack of food, clothing, shelter… People lying down across train tracks in protest, children being teargassed in multiple countries, fires breaking out in Calais as the Jungle gets bulldozed, 400 kids left homeless* and alone.  Human rights violations along the Balkan Route are as common as ditchwater.

*A note on this article: some of the numbers may be confusing.  It’s estimated that there are around 400 kids in Calais, the youngest of whom is ten.  This also does not take into account the families who have taken on a relative’s kid as their own, which happens frequently.  Those kids are often much younger, and although they are not unaccompanied, they are traveling without their own parents, and the mental stress can be very damaging.  Although the article barely touches on it, one of the biggest concerns around unaccompanied minors is human trafficking and sex slavery.  The refugee crisis has already provided human traffickers with easy pickings – kids disappear all the time.

Unsafe Passage in Turkish Waters

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I woke up to this in my newsfeed yesterday. NOTE: numbers of dead unconfirmed

Lilian is a friend of mine who works with the Worldwide Tribe.  She worked the night shift in Moria two nights ago and posted this in the morning when she finished.  I talked to my friend Sadzida (Sa-JEE-da), who spoke to this man in the tent.  She’s an Arabic translator from Libya and Bosnia.

The man she spoke to went to the medical tent in Moria with some minor tooth pain, and while he was there began to tell her the story.  He tried four times to take a boat to Greece, and on the fifth try he finally made it.  Once they were on the water however, the situation became lethal almost at once.  The Turkish Police appeared and began deliberately trying to sink the three boats.

“They used knives to cut the boats, and then filled them with water from hoses,” Sadzida told me, relating what the survivor told her, “the men tried to push the boat as fast as it could go,” she made paddling motions with her hands, indicating that they did this manually.  “They threw stones at the police to make them go away.  Some threw even their phones.”

She specified that it was the Turkish police in uniform sinking the boats, not the smugglers or the Coast Guard.

Two of the three boats went down.  Everyone drowned.  One boat managed to escape into Greek waters, where it was picked up by the Greek Coast Guard and towed into safe harbor in Mytilene.  The survivors were bundled into a UNHCR bus and brought to Moria as usual.  “He was afraid to take pictures,” Sadzida said, “he is afraid for his family if he takes a picture and it goes online.”

Sadly, this is a valid concern.  Many refugees are camera-shy, and it’s often because they fear for the safety of relatives left back in active war zones.  Sometimes association with someone who fled the country is enough to endanger a family back in Syria.  Some of the young men are happy to take selfies with volunteers and it’s common to see newly landed groups taking a “we made it!” selfie, but often enough when they see a camera slung around someone’s neck they melt away like fog in the sun.

Far from wanting to disappear, this survivor begged Sadzida in tears to tell his story.  “He wanted me to tell everyone,” she said, “he was crying, he didn’t want the ones who were killed to be forgotten.”

Although there are many articles about capsized boats and plenty of statistics on refugee drownings, it’s hard to find anything about deliberate sabotage.  Yet we hear firsthand stories from refugees all too often.  Unconfirmed rumors have Turkish authorities shooting at boats, rival smugglers slashing each others’ boats, Coast Guard officials watching boats sink without helping, and refugees slashing their own boats in efforts to get rescued by the Greek Coast Guard.  We know that refugees almost never have real life jackets, and most of them believe they’re paying for a seaworthy boat right up until they have to get in.

Sometimes it feels like a miracle that anyone makes it across the water at all.  Warsan Shire, a Somali-British poet writes in her poem Home, “you have to understand,/that no one puts their children in a boat/unless the water is safer than the land.”  They run from horror to horror, and we can only try to help.

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Sunrise over Turkey